At the end of 2013 I had developed a plan for the coming year, this year, 2014. Looking back we can see that post from 2013; A year In Review.
Therefore coming soon I shall once again post about this year. It has been such a pivotal, monumental and enlightening experience. I have given such deep thoughts into what transpired, what was gained, and what was lost. I am certain without any doubts I will write a book from the events of 2014.
From my mind to the keyboard… the world will read about “The Life and Times” of this year, 2014. The whole story will be filled with truths, real people and places. Convoluted events and loss. Self realizations and understanding. At once I can say I understand, Love, Peace, Happiness and Sharing in a relationship will only work when both work together.
We should always be thankful for the wonderful things we share together.
The virtual world always tells the truth. It exposes a liar, and makes light to the words told or written. There is always someone, something, somewhere who revels truth. Make no mistake about it… as long as you continue to be in a virtual reality, you must always be honest. Say what you say, but also know when you lie, something will tell a story contrary, more truthful. Surly other people will tell their own version. However, when evidence tells a story, based in facts, pictures, post and walls expose the reality based in a real world of knowledge. Lock that wall down, try to protect or hide, make any attempt to keep secret… but some things can never be hidden… from the eyes of virtual seekers. Honesty is always the truth. Lies only conclude a liar is always a liar and until one stops… there is no hope for peace and happiness between us.
A picture can paint a thousand words. My words can paint a thousand pictures.
If you could look into my mind one will see a sea of tranquility. It is not always chaos, even though there are an ocean of thought swimming around inside. Emotions are but a small part of the fish within my sea. Yes, there are predators lurking within. Sometimes I have to protect myself with the harpoon of truth. Yet in the vastness of my universe, and the many creatures that attempt to control my world, I am always able to be the Poseidon.
When we sort through the thoughts, and are able to draw our bow back, we will at once shoot the arrow of thinking into the target. But even the best of archers must practice. Always we try to choose the straightest of arrows, one whose fletching is attached by the best of glue. And a point that was sharpened by the most skillful of smiths. Sometimes I fail to hit my target. And even with the best of aim, the steadiest of hand and arms, the truest of eye, the wind may cause my arrow to fly into the forest.
Let not nature or the laws of convoluted thinking control what we can dream. Even when someone says you cannot do a certain thing, stand up and say contrary. As writers, we have the power to craft our thoughts into words. And words can speak volumes if only a single sentence. Become the blacksmith and create the tools to build your house of literature. Discover new fish in the sea of thoughts. We can never discover what we do not seek. From your mind to the keyboard, or by pen if you prefer, write.
Life is a journey. A journey never meant to be traveled alone. Seize the day. Look out of every window. Live your dreams. Dwell on possibilities, but not to long. Forgive. A little less worry. A little less hurry. A little more kindness. Embrace the one that loves you today, because tommorow may never come. Memories complete the soul.
10/26/2014 – Fixed an issue where a Chat User could only chat when logged in. Fixed code to allow public access.
I have opened Comments ( Come On! You know you have something to say. ) on every page and post. Feel free to voice your onion opinion or flowery words. I welcome everything you have to say… except links. Spam will not be tolerated! And I have filtered thousands of words.
There is a new Plugin installed. Chat is enabled to allow myself and users to have a more personalized experience. It is private between us. I have learned that secrecy it a tool, and will use it fully, to have a private conversation with many.
Be the architect of destruction, if that is your wish. I shall remain the architect of hope, peace and happiness. True love remains in the heart of one, for all to see.
People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life…
A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake.
Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you…
A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, mistakes and successes, virtues and qualities, to transform you in a better person.
The Year 2013, was for me many things. One can only learn from the ups and down a year can bring. I shared with someone beauty like I have never known. Also, shared with some, the worst life can dish out. Nevertheless, learning is always plus, being it was bad or good.
One of the more interesting things I learned, social networking pitfalls. Some people seem to thrive on drama. It is not a secondary way, but a way of life. I learned A successful relationship is the union of two good forgivers. However, this requires both to be committed to the relationship. And once I began to understand, that I was the only one, this was the beginning of its end. Sad when the person you love with all your heart cannot move from the past to the present, then work on the future.
In addition to, I learned that finance is something that a couple MUST communicate about. Keeping secrets, spending money that must be used to maintain the couples home, is the biggest failure. Money woes are a large contributor to the erosion of trust. Secrets, Lies, Deceit and failure to communicate feelings will destroy. I learned that if one person cannot talk about feelings, they will eventually explode. Communication is the key in any relationship, including BEST FRIENDS! Talk to your partner, else you both will fail.
2013 was a year for learning. A year of growing. A year of pain. A year of lost dreams. And 2014 started out as great. But I let myself go back to something I now regret. Lesson learned Wade.
For a very long time I tried to get my name in a “DOT COM” as Wade Lancaster. So today, like many others I thought to see if it was available. And here I am! What better place to host it then my old reliable GoDaddy. And what better app to run then WordPress.
So today will be the first day of the rest of my days, as seen in the virtual world online. After all the Internet has made the world like a small village. Come on over to my town, it is only as far away as your keyboard or that really smart mobile device you have. What the hell, you can even do it from the couch if you please. But leave me behind when you go the bathroom please.
Now I do have a life, how small it may be. And I do have a career how little it may seem. However, I do have many adventures, likes, dislike and opinions. Even though they are my own I will share this much with you. After all friendship is the strongest foundation two people can ever share. Perhaps we shall develop one. Nevertheless, you may not like what I have to say. You may not like my way of thinking. Still that will be alright because everyone has something to say.